FIVE STAGES OF MOVING-ON.
STAGE 1: Denial
- It’s When you can’t accept the fact that the one you love is gone. And you can’t figure out what went wrong in your relationship. You Think over and over again why he/she had the reason to leave you when all you know is that you loved him/her with your all.
STAGE 2: Anger
- You want him/her to have his/her karma. Or your too frustrated for the fact that some efforts are wasted and he/she gave up easily. In this stage, all you can think of is that your partner rip your heart in two and you just can’t forgive him/her for doing it.
STAGE 3: Bargaining
- You try to ask your self what went wrong? You try to win his/her heart back. And you make him/her realize that you can do better. But because of their reasons, they won’t. And you try talking sense out them.
STAGE 4: Depression
- When finally you realize that it will never be like it was before, You feel lonely. You always feel like no one could ever loved you the way he/she has. The sudden sadness and numbness would over power you. And you feel like in times like this, you should have someone in your arms. It also makes you think of precious memories.
STAGE 5: Acceptance
- This is when you start accepting that what you think is love is long gone and it will never be yours again. You start to see things more clearly and the feelings that once over power you made you much stronger.
(Source: alenggg)
